Lesson Learned

okay, so I have learned a lesson - again. It is that ever learning lesson not to take life for granted. Went to a layout last night and will be headed to a funeral this morning for a 36-year old man. He was so full of life, has a family and has had a great life - here is a man whose motto was "Living the Dream" even to his last days.

It was the first funeral I had been to since dad and it was the first time I had been to that funeral home since Steve's dad passed away - it was hard and it was hard to go to one for a person younger than me. Needless to say I hugged my boys tight last night and I will again today. It makes you realize not to take your family for granted, your brothers, your sisters, your friends - whatever little pettiness fights are going on, let it go. Just let it go you never know how much time you have here on earth and you do not want to waste it with such anger and hatred and pettiness.

In saying that, I had a post up here earlier this week about that boss. I took it down because I realized that who am I to judge. The only person that can judge the boss and the family is God. I can not judge them, I can only say that what they did was completely wrong in not thanking anyone, I can only say that being hypocrites is no way to live, I can only say having a celebration while people are mourning the loss of their job is rude and wrong, I can only say that the people you chose to keep are the same people that have been talked about and they in return have talked about you, I can only say that it was wrong to not even say a "Thank You" for all of the years of service, thank you for giving up your holidays, your weekends, your family dinners, your life so my family and I can have a much richer one.

I can only say no more. Because I am not your judge, no one here on earth is, only God can do that. And in knowing what goes around comes around and knowing that karma is a bitch - makes all of the scorned people smile.

"Living the Dream" is what life is all about. As much as people scorn and hurt you, as much as life may suck right now, you will be fine. Don't worry about what others think or do, don't be the judge, let it all go and let God be the judge. Everything will work out, everything has a purpose and reason.

Live Your Dream - Live the way YOU want to live, do not let others determine how you are going to live, or what type of person you are going to be, live your DREAM.

Just in a blah mood today - funerals are hard. Life is hard and unfair but is is life.

I hope everyone has a great weekend!

Miss and love you dad - so much.

Much love to all!