An Article...

a dear friend of our families, actually Jen's sister in law gave me an article to read that was in the messenger on May 22. It is called: A final act- Giving our deaths to our loved ones" It talks about how we are meant to give our lives for others, and we are also meant to give our deaths for them. We are to die in such a way that our deaths are our final blessing to others.

The death of a generous, gracious soul releases blessing and makes others feel free, just as the death of a bitter clinging soul pours out accusation and make others feel guilty. If I live in graciousness, in admiration, in forgiveness, and am willing, when it's time, to decrease so that others can increase, then what will be poured out at my death is blessing. My death will mean new freedom and courage for those who knew me. They will be able to go on with their lives with less fear, less guilt, knowing that it is best for them that I go away and that, like Jesus, I am helping to prepare a place for them. Ultimately the way of dying is our choice.

I know dad died with dignity and honor and we were so blessed, all of us, to be a part of the whole experience the last six days. I look back on it and am in awe, first that we didn't kill each other (LOL), but how we all came together, the five of us, the brothers, the sisters, neighbors and friends, how were all able to come and say good-bye and to be able to spend those last few minutes with him. The day dad passed away wow, what a true blessing to have his brothers/sisters there along with us kids and mom - it truly was a blessing. Not many people can go the way they wanted to, not many people get to say good-byes. Even though dad was in pain towards the end he was able to tell us each one by one, good-bye and not to be afraid. To live on and he will see us again one day....I hope when it is my turn, I can be half the person dad was on his journey.

I love and miss you dad!

(this was a hard one to type tonight- need another tissue)

Also, we have some extra prayer cards - if anyone did not get one but would like one just let me know and I can send one your way.....

Much love to all,